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Wednesday, November 14, 2007

Remiss in Mentioning

Mrs. du Toit

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  1. Hey there terrible friend! smile

    Thanks for the links! I’ve been having trouble leaving comments here (hence the email) I agree thoroughly with your analysis.

    BTW, I should change my goal, as I think ending the Culture War is impossible - at least certainly beyond my capacities. (I’m simply going to continue being a traitor to both, um, “sides.")

    Eric Scheie | 11/14/2007 03:39 PM CDT
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  3. Well, if you keep tugging on SuperMom’s apron, eventually you’re going to get handed a spoon and told to stir something. 

    Or in this particular instance, to stir something else. smile

    I have to confess I was being more-than-slightly tongue in cheek about the device mentioned in the article I linked to.  Rape is no joking matter, but people’s response to percieved threat often is.  Making that distinction can result in a poorly structured presentation however, particularly when one is writing in haste.  It is true that rape victims are often casually familiar with their attacker; which is not at all the same as an “established personal relationship”.  Two different categories of victim, lumped together in a badly structured illustration of the featured product’s shortcomings.

    It really is amazing the hoops people will build just to have something to jump through.  All because other people won’t let them confront a problem in the obvious direct fashion.

    Thanks for the link, Connie.  All here are welcome to drop by.

    Will Brown | 11/15/2007 02:03 AM CDT
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  5. One other part of the “spoils” of the Feminist Majority that’s always puzzled me is the divorce industry.
    For some reason, it appears as though (from the cases I’ve witnessed, and what I read on dead trees) the system is almost completely one-sided. The marriage has ended, but the ex-husband is expected to support the child at phenominally greater levels than they would have the marriage not split up. And the “child support” payments are allowed to be used to support the ex-wife as well ... although the term “alimony” is seldom used anymore.

    My stepson was surprised to be invited to be a party in an unusually acrimonious divorce ... he had no idea there was anything wrong (seems she met a doctor at her workplace who didn’t mind adultery and whom she thought would be a better “catch"). It look about 4 years before the divorce was final (don’t ever ask him about Ft. Worth lawyers) and it seems like it never is final. He keeps getting dragged back to court whenever she finds out he’s making a few bucks more than he had been. And the court has her paying about 25% of the adjudicated child support payments, even though her base salary is about twice his. He’d dearly love to have his son with him, and she’s about as cold a fish as a mother as she was about marriage ... but he doesn’t stand a hope of gaining custody in a Texas court, according to the lawyers he’s consulted.

    Seems like it’s not just the pregnancy end of the spectrum that’s weighted in favor of the fairer sex ...

    pete in Midland | 11/15/2007 08:53 AM CDT
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  7. The problem Mrs. du Toit is that marriage does not give those things to a man.  Married women don’t have to get their husband’s permission to get an abortion.  The law is clear, it’s her choice.  Second, not only does he have to support his children, he has to support anyone’s child.  All a cheating wife has to do is get him to sign a birth certificate.  Marriage is no guarantee for a man.  Until that’s fixed, it seems to me that the only honorable solution is to avoid women completely, until that day that Men are Angels.

    Robert Mitchell Jr. | 11/19/2007 04:56 PM CDT
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  9. “Fixed”?  So children are such awful creatures that you have to make sure they’re “yours” otherwise you want to drown them like unwanted kittens?

    Marriage was and is about protecting CHILDREN… ANY children brought into that marriage.

    If men are looking for something out of marriage besides the joy and privilege of having children, I would suspect they are still children themselves.

    Mrs. du Toit | 11/19/2007 05:12 PM CDT
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  11. Thanks for your response Mrs. Toit.  Sorry I did not make my direction clear.  Children are the Debt we own Creation, and I have failed in that duty and am surely Damned.  You spoke of guarantees.  Having to stand powerless, while a child is ripped from the womb, it’s head smashed on the floor, or having to loss any contact with my children, because they are going to be with their “real” father, well, the thought of it is more then I can bear.  If I have to choose between being Damned now, or Damned later, I’m going with later.  I know, I’m a coward, but my Soul is important to me, and I don’t want to break it.

    Robert Mitchell Jr. | 11/19/2007 05:28 PM CDT
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